When my cat died, I was very very upset, (mainly because I didn't have anything to bury and I don't actually know what happened to her). For the fist month or so, I would see her out of the corner of my eye. EVERYWERE! She came to me on X-mas eve, and the doggs went nuts, So when I saw her out of the corner of my eye, was it really her or my imagination?
Also do we really see ghost or i it the same with them? Same with visions, and past life regressions. Is that real, or does our subconsious (sp?) mind make it all up for us? Your views please.

One night after our dogs died Ian was sitting on the floor facing me sitting on the settee.

I saw one of the shadows that you get out of the corner of your eye and it was as if one of the dogs had laid down at the end of the settee, i looked and Ian looked at exactly the same time in exactly the same place.

Theres no way that was my eyes playing tricks or my imagination as we both saw it at the same time.

Another night i couldnt sleep and was reading on the settee when i felt fur brush across my legs.

well I'm a medium so you know what I think!

I know that ghosts exist, but I sometimes think that half of what we think we see is just our mind playing tricks on us. I think that when I was seeing her all the time it was just my imagination. I think I wanted her back soo much that I was hellucinating or something. I was even seeing her at school, and she was a very stuck up cat (who isn't) and I think that she had better things to do with her after life than follow me. She came to me on x-mas eve because she knew that it would be a difficult time for me. I could even hear purring. The doggs went nuts, the cats did the same and mum saw her.
I did this spell that absolutely tore me appart. It was to send your pet off to the kitty heaven or whatever. I didn't want to do it, and I waited for about 2 weeks, but I did it 'cos it would be best for her. I haven't seen her since and I try not to talk about her because I still cry over six months on. I never properly got over it and its to late to start that up again. But I hope that she is happy and going to come back to see me. I'm so going to end up an angry cat lady. Lol.

The most loyal - ie the majority of pets etc - animals wouldn't let a thing like death stop them from being by your side.

I think that Baggins would stick to a very old saying. Dogs have owners, Cats have staff. I think that I got fired. I love and miss her very much, but we have a lovely little half ferral cat called Purrdie and she loves me very much (touch wood).

I know what you mean, i didnt do a spell but i told Jude and Sadie off and told them to get on with their own spiritual journey and not to worry about me.

Is her name Baggins?

im guessing its the anniversary of loosing her and should have picked up on that earlier.

Your going to be like this till the year anniversary and then somehow things seem to get easier, Dont get me wrong youll still get upset and a tight throat but not as often and more easy to control.

If your in need of telling her life story theres a wonderful pet loss site called lightning strike or you can pm me.

and love

Sue

www.lightning-strike.com